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May 03 A Letter to the GeminiHave been thinking a lot lately, especially in those late nights…well early morning might be a more proper word. Hearing the ticking of the clock, lying in the pitch dark. Mind just can’t stop flowing, quite some reflections.
Is it really the forbidden fruit punishment?...rethink, and rethink more, might be not. Its just another story that the end has been set. It just totally can be foreseen, right at the very moment that I saw your palm lines.
People with the same nature are always drawn together, magnetically. Our similar nature might be the trigger, so we chatted, we met, and more…We attracted to each other coz we are one of the kind. I know u, know how u would feel, how u would act, coz it’s just as easy as looking at a mirror. Just unluckily that it’s not positive meets another positive. 2 negatives can’t really make a positive, can they? Just double-negative…still remember in your zodiac interpretation, said that u are meant to be attracted to a pretty and steady girl. There’s no such a word as steady in my dictionary, isn’t it. A steady, persistent person, totally the opposite of us, might just be what we need, for both of us. Coz he/she might be able to remind us how to love ourselves, others properly. Such a pathetic and poor memory that we have, so we can’t remember how to love at all? Then he/she would just teach us, from the ground, that’s y he/she has to be very persistent.
Before heard that factors that a guy look for a wife: a woman who always loves u unconditionally; a woman who always dares to challenge u; and a woman who u always wanna have sex with.
I might fit the 2nd part, but one part would never be enough, right? We are kinda imcomplete, and we need a healthy person to complete us. We could be good friends though, coz we are both misearable as hell:D.
U r the 2nd Gemini I heard said wanna die. Geminis just naturally have this dead wish?! Don’t, coz now u might be the only one misearable, but if u did, there would be loads….so this is a lose money business, smart as u, surely wouldn’t need me gossip more. March 18 just words"there is no one as kind as u, no one who gave me reasons that i understood for doing what at first seemed so hard"...but, sometimes fate throws 2 lovers together, only to rip them apart... timing is everything... March 16 nightmare “ no.... NO!” with a terrifying scream, I sat up with a start. Everything surrounding me had already been swallowed by the darkness. A gentle breeze wafted the particular refreshing cold of night in through the open window, aroused all consciousness, especially the ice-cold wetness on my face. Hundreds of recollections all flowed into my chaotic brain. “ No…no..."
The sheer amplitude of pictures moved rapidly, like a movie in my mind, a movie about an enviable family. The more delightful the memories were, the more tightly the agony wrapped my heart. The movie was still on. Just “good bye” the gorgeous, and “hello” the colorless. The only sounds that left were just endless furious shouting, annoying whines, and on-and-off sobs. All these chaos were like a tornado, blowing through, uprooting everything, creating a twisted world. Bruised and battered, dazed and shattered, how to pretend it was still the mansion that had lived with. As everybody was screaming, I tried to make a sound but no one heard. How could this happen? Again, those unknown substances filled my eyes, tasted, salty.
Leaning on the wall so as not to fall apart, totally overwhelmed by the frustration. Once a wise man said, “ When you find yourself lost in the darkness of despair, remember that it is only in the black of night that you can see the stars, and those stars will lead you back home.” YES, but how if the darkness was too strong to fight with, and when all the stars were forced to hide in the shadow of black? wondered if there remained strengths to help to crawl from the rubble and slowly rebuild the previous joyous world...
Out of the window, darkness was fading away. The world was lightened up by the golden bright shines. With the warm hug of the daylight, fellinto sleep exhaustively, again…...
March 10 50 things to learn before 26-year-old1. 把重返校园充电认真列入计划，并在30岁前再次毕业。 2，如果在现在的岗位上已经连续3年没有任何提升，果断炒了老板。 3，现在是转到另一个全然陌生的行业的最后时机，要想变就趁现在！ 4，不要以为自己还有标准、还有原则、还有底线。你以为是你在强奸生活吗？ 5，把任何别人看起来是堕落的行为或爱好转换成特长：嗜酒就喝成鉴赏专家、沉迷打网游就去卖装备卖号、爱混夜店就去城市杂志当编辑、喜欢显摆就去晒货网当版主。 6，可以养宠物，但不要把宠物当子女。 7，硬性储蓄收入的30%，哪怕只能坚持一年。 8，学会与小孩相处，或者学会与老人相处。 9，从现在起，每年请父母旅游一次。 10，不再期待什么，但清楚知道自己需要什么。 11，永远玩得尽兴。只要出来了，就不要对朋友嘟囔说“我不能喝，我11点要回家，我明天要早起……”，朋友没强迫你出来做婊子，你给自己立什么牌坊？ 12，不要再把QQ、MSN的签名搞成针对实质性内容的抱怨。比如“周末加班还没工资这不是犯法吗？！”，又或者“情敌易躲，朋友难防”。 13，以相同的价值观选择朋友，无论对方比你富有或贫穷。 14，接受各种批评，但绝不接受侮辱。 15，任何形式的装，都是失败者的行为。 16，贱，其实是一种了不起的生存智慧。 身体 17，每年体检一次，和陌生人发生性行为以后马上加检一次。 18，想不出喝什么就喝温水，想不出吃什么就吃蔬菜。 19，大病险、人身险要买——现在吃的用的有什么是安全的？ 20，女人请关爱自己的乳腺， 男人 请关爱自己的发际线与前列腺。 21，大量喝酒前请吃饱点，不为消解酒精也为呕吐的时候有东西可吐，而不是自己的胃液。 22，26岁开始，好身材的标准是小腹不突起。 23，26岁开始，不洗脸就睡觉第二天皮肤照样紧绷光滑，将正式成为天方夜谈。 24，认真学习保养，或者认真学习化妆。 25，把一个无论在任何情况下都会接你电话的朋友，写成你的紧急联络人。 衣柜 26，至少拥有10件衬衣。并且学会1件衬衣的10种穿法。 27，必须有一件全毛料长大衣。就像汪明荃即使在TVB台庆拿不到奖，也要坐完整晚一样，那叫做“地位”，无可替代，即使你嫌她老，又不够风骚。 28，连续两天穿同样的衣服，是对别人的不礼貌。 29，不要总买打折货，容易造成潜在的自卑。 30，至少在你退休之前，都不要穿着睡衣裤出门倒垃圾、遛狗。哪怕是深夜。 31，过了26岁，不要再把露出名牌内裤的边当成时尚。事实上，从26岁开始，任何情况下，都不要露出你的内衣边，或者让别人能透过你的外衣裤，看出你内衣裤的形状。不穿都比这强。 32，尽量不再穿任何含有非天然成分的衣物。 33，衣柜常备1-2件全新未拆封的新衫，它们可以让你遭遇任何突发场合或约会时都能心安。 34，爱惜每一件衣服，但送出去也毫不手软。 35，盛装不须任何理由，穿衣只为自己高兴。 性情 36，26岁以后，半年没有 性生活 将成为一种常态。 37，26岁以后，没人会把你床上的笨拙不配合当成纯情。所以，与其扭捏作态，不如找准G点。 38，别一天尽和人、尤其是网友扯什么爱啊情的，需要通常只有单纯的两种状态：想看他脱裤子和想和他过日子。 39，看到喜欢的人就去接近、去搭讪，26岁以后，面子是次要的，拒绝之后反正谁也不认识谁。但26岁以后留下的遗憾，往往会发展成心病。 40，安全套比承诺更保险，所以钱包里要随时装一枚。不一定是自己用，关键时刻也可以帮朋友一把。 41，很抱歉，这个社会就是不公平，所以无论自己有钱没钱，我们都绝不会和超过32岁还在租房子住的男人约会，除非他租的是一级公寓。 42，准备几个万能话题，比如股市、美食、打折信息、共同认识的朋友的八卦等，用来应对刚开始约会的对象和已经如同左手摸右手的恋人。 43，26岁以后，比孤独更可怕的是麻木。 44，26岁以后，在炫耀自己年轻肉体的小孩面前不用自卑，他们是很把自己当回事，而你其实也不过就只是想玩玩她/他而已。 45，26岁还不到要靠钱和地位来弥补自己吸引力的地步，但被别人单纯的看上外表也不再是值得骄傲的事。 46，如果和陌生人一夜情，那就只上床不过夜。 47，26岁以后，凭直觉去搞，凭经验去爱；26岁以前，两者相反。 48，不要再把很爽的性等同于真爱——哪怕已经连续爽了一个月。 49，26岁以前，可以迷恋罗兰巴特说过的那句“眼泪的存在就是为了证明悲哀不是一场幻觉”；26岁以后，则要学会用同理来证明：勃起（男女都有的生理反应）的存在就是为了证明纯粹的精神恋爱根本就是扯蛋。 50，26岁起，你将要做出的每一个选择，都要能保证你会比现在更快乐！ some funny jokes from my dearest schoolmate Lil Man from GDUFS1.《假如警察也有赞助》 因為資源緊拙...警方曾考慮接受贊助... 如果成事...唔知會唔會好似電視台咁... 警員A : "娃哈哈酪酸乳提提你 : 你地已經被包圍,快d放低武器投降" 或者~~~ 警員 B : "我宜家問你野,你有權保持緘默~~~以上係由黑妹牙膏特約" 又或者~~~ 警員C : "我係警察!咪走~~~米酒梗係揀珠江橋牌米酒! " 警員X: 你地已經被包圍了, 我限你地一分鐘內出黎投降,時間倒數系由xx錶贊助 警員X:先生.....熄匙,車牌,身分證,大家樂~為你做足一百分 警員X:你而家有權保持緘默....或者你可以叫杯咖啡等你律師黎....即沖咖啡由雀巢牛奶公司提供. 警員X:依家唔係事必要你講....除非你想講我地會用書寫流暢既斑馬牌真美筆記低 , 日後用黎做呈堂証供 2. 深圳麥當勞… 港客：〝唔該一個豬柳漢堡。” 店員：〝要蛋呀。〞 港客：〝唔要蛋喇唔該！〞 店員好勞氣：〝你要蛋喎！〞 港客開始?憎：〝我唔要蛋喇，我淨係要豬柳漢堡咋！〞 店員更加勞氣：〝要蛋一蛋呀，要蛋十分鐘呀……〞 4.情歌对唱《你知道我在等你吗？》 今天，小Man好友清清（是帅哥来的！）约小Man吃饭，在三栋楼下等了一段很长的时间。终于，小Man终于出现啦。清清忍不住要对小Man凭歌寄意： 清清：你知道我在等你吗？ 小Man：你在等我的妈干吗？（原歌：你如果真的在乎我） 清清：～～～～～～（对答不上） 于是，小Man一个人将首情歌唱完： 小Man：（男声部分）我在等你的妈将她的女儿嫁（原歌：又怎会让寂静的夜陪我渡过） 3..帅哥是这样炼成的 一日，某小花把她男朋友的照片骄傲地炫给小花们看， 某小花：“他帅吧？” 丛儿：“他没有了头比较帅！” 4. 高人工的民工 佳佳和允哥哥一起就职于深圳马X鸡物流，三千多块钱一个月。放工后，他两会买菜到允哥哥宿舍煮饭吃。 允哥哥的宿舍只有一张床，床头有张台，台上放个电饭煲，没有椅子。 吃饭的时候，佳佳坐在床头离台最近的地方夹菜，允哥哥则要蹲在台前面吃，要夹菜的时候就站起来。 描述完情景，其实只为了引出允哥哥蹲着吃饭时讲的一句话： “现在的民工人工还真是高，有三千多块钱一个月！” 5.分手事件 小Man：“江马和他女朋友分手了。。。” JOJO：“为什么？” 小Man：“那个女孩话嫌他含蓄喔。” JOJO：“借口而已吧？” 小Man：“此话何解？” JOJO：“哪有女朋友会嫌自己的男朋友咸湿的啊？！”～～～。。。 6.消夜事件 婷：“啊～～肚子好饿啊！” 小Man：“吃方便面吧？” 婷：“热气啊！” 小Man：“那吃饼干啦？” 婷：“饼干都是热气的呀！” 老大：“那你冲杯茶，吃茶渣吧！” 7. 称呼老公事件 五朵小花讨论将来怎样称呼自己的老公。 Jo Jo：“衰佬！” 佳佳：“”Honey！” 小Man：“老公或者衰猪。” 老大：““喂。” 丛丛：“爱人。” 婷婷：“哎呀，你这个杀千刀！” ～～～众小花听后沉默。。。 8. 雅思事件 小Man的好朋友拓海在11.19去考雅思。今天，是无线电视翡翠台的台庆。 拓海：“我这次考雅思又肥佬了” 小Man：“早就料到了” 拓海：“不是吧你，心肠这么歹毒” 小Man：“是你自己挑错时候去考雅思了” 拓海：“？？？？” 小Man：“今天翡翠台台庆，你跑去考人家的死对头亚视（雅思），不肥佬才怪！” 9.哥哥事件 刚入学的时候，班上有两位男生，一位姓黄，一位叫阿生，都非常喜欢我们家小丛。他俩日夜软硬兼施的要我们小丛喊他俩做哥哥。但是，自小就没有喊过别人作哥的小丛，不愿意，但是又不想让两人失望。于是乎，小Man就想出了一个绝妙的办法： 来自吉林的小丛说粤语说不准是非常正常的。而那两位男生刚好又是广东人。于是，小Man就教丛丛，用她那半咸不淡的粤语喊他两人当“狗狗”（哥哥） 于是乎，小丛每次见到他俩，都快乐地大喊：“黄狗狗生狗狗喽！” 从此，没有人再敢认作小丛的哥啦 48.两母子（粤语） JO JO：“今天，我HONEY跟我玩了一个游戏” 小Man：“什么游戏？” JO JO：“他叫我抓住他两只手指公” 小Man：“然后呢？” JO JO：“然后他对我说：‘你放过我两母子（拇指）啦！’” 10. 媽媽說叫雞的都不是好男人 話說家禽村裡面的雞仔一直暗戀鴨女，為她付出了很多，對她非常的好，但是鴨女卻一直不願意接受他。有一天雞仔終於忍不住問鴨女：“為什麼我這麼喜歡你，對你那麼好，你都不肯接受我呢？” 看著激動的雞仔，鴨女只好含淚說出事實真相：“媽媽說叫雞的都不是好男人.....” 11.是赞人还是贬人？ JO JO：“老公，其实你中意我乜野姐？” 朗朗：“我最中意你为人好casual。” JO JO：“咩啊？” 朗朗：“好casual啊！” JO JO：“啊？？” 朗朗：“好ke 傻啊！” ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ JO JO：“仲有无其他啊？” 朗朗：“中意你份人自然罗。” JO JO：“咩啊？” 朗朗：“中意你自然啊！” JO JO：“啊？？” 朗朗：（快读）“你贱啊！”（ 12.变靓，变靓，再变靓 主角－小Man，阿生（小Man同事） 小Man有“急事”，突然某同事笑姐要小Man复印身份证办某手续 小Man：“生生，麻烦你帮我复印一下身份证，然后给笑姐好吗？我急急啊，谢谢！” 生生：“当然没有问题啦。你想复印得靓一点，还是丑一点呢？” 小Man：“如果想靓一点，该怎么复印呢？” 生生：“用一张纸，把你的头盖住，然后再复印就行了。” 13.生肖之迷 今天一早，部长说要让阿生（小man的同事）帮忙买个座机电话。 小Man：“点解要稳阿生买啊？” 部长：“佢熟个D啊嘛！” 小Man：“原来阿生系属电话架！我一直以为佢系属狗噶添！” .14.小Man买 mose 寻日，小Man去屈银纸买mose，左手一支Shasoon，右手一支Sifen，揸唔定主意。就响依个时候，有个sale姐姐行埋小Man身边 Sales：（拿起一支温雅）“依支好用啊，好保湿架！” 小Man：“依两支唔保湿架？” Sales：“。。。。。。依支唔会粒痴痴，好干爽架！” 小Man ：“依两支会粒痴痴架？” Sales：“。。。。。。依支气味清香啊” 小Man：“依两支好难闻架？” 大家唔好以为小Man系专登搞事，小Man系真系因为未用过Shasoon同Sifen，但见人地系牌子，又心思思想买，但又唔知买边支，先会甘样反问个姐姐噶姐。 就响依个时候，小Man手机响啦，系Honey Honey：“做紧咩啊？” 小Man：“响屈银纸买紧mose。买Shasoon好定Sifen好啊？我决定唔到啊！” Honey：“你中意啦！” 小Man：“你帮我拣啊！我拣唔到啊！” Honey：“Shasoon啦！” 小Man：“好啊！小姐，唔该！我要支Sifen啊！” 15..啊妈十大口头蝉: 1.著多件衫呀 （不論寒冷或酷熱天氣警告都會聽到） 2 生舊叉燒好過生你 （點解係叉燒? 雙拼叉鹅會唔會好D） 3 隔離陳師奶個仔讀書都唔知幾叻 （係囉, 妳都話"唔知"落,講黎把鬼咩） 4 早D訓啦, 晚晚都咁夜訓, 聽朝返工/返學唔夠精神呀（不如你早D訓聽朝準時叫醒我啦) 5 第二樣野冇見你咁叻, 駁咀你就最叻 （你遗传的啊 ） 6 睇電視唔好坐咁埋呀, 睇壞對眼呀 （ 媽, 太遲啦,就係對眼壞左先要坐咁埋睇） 7 叫0左你唔好夜晚洗頭, 第二日老0左你就知 （第二日咁快就老 ） 8 得閒帶個女仔返黎食飯啦 （帶男仔得唔得啊 ） 9 幾時結婚呀 （結婚, 結婚, 結完就分, 有乜好結喎） 16.JO JO发给小man的笑话 男: 今晚你想食乜野？ 女: 是旦啦!!你话事 男: 食寿司好唔好？ 女: 天寒地冻仲食D冻冰冰野... 男: 去打边 t啦,天气 冻,打边 t就最正 女: 我前两日先打过,成日打好热气... 男: 去食泰国野或者韩国烧烤好唔好？？ 女: 都话左热气啦,仲要我食呢D野,你有无心听我讲野架. 男: 去POKKA好唔好？？个度D SET DINNER都几好食(开始有D无奈) 女: POKKA好多人,唔想排队 男: 去"锯排"好唔好？？ 女: 唔想食太多肉,好肥架.. 男: 无人你食晒件"排",或者你叫碟意粉又或者其他野都得架 女: 咪即系叫我睇住你"锯排",我唔食你都唔准食... 男: 食台湾野好唔好？(有D火) 女: 台湾野好多油,好肥架(撒娇状) 男: 去食粥啦(已经开始"发悔气") 女: 天气冻,食粥唔饱肚 男: 麦记"定"家乡鸡...行啦(江良才尽"发悔气",明显已经唔想谂) 女: 都话热气落..(委屈状) 男: 不如你话事啦,我唔想谂啦... 女: 我就系谂唔到食乜先叫你话事,你比D主见得唔得(发脾气) 男: 唔系话热气,就话肥,我真系谂唔到仲有乜可以食(爆发了) 女: 系热气、系肥"呀吗"..我有讲错咩,自己谂唔到就乱发人脾气(恶人先告状) 男: 去"味千"食拉面好唔好 女: 唔..都好,我要食咖哩拉面/炸饺子,仲要食雪糕(明显系见好就收) 男: (心谂) 你老味~神又你鬼又你~咖哩唔热气、炸饺唔热气、仲食雪糕冻死你! 17. 朋友发给小Man 的笑话 小时侯，把English读为"应给利息"的同学当了行长；读为"阴沟里洗"的成了小菜贩子；读为"因果联系"的成了哲学家；读为"硬改历史"的成了领导；读为"英国里去"的成了海外华侨；而我不小心读成了"应该累死 "，结果成了广州打工一族。。。。 18. 麦兜真人版 小Man在深圳 *bucks 服务员：小姐请问要什么? 小man：Cappociano 服务员：冰的还是热的？ 小man：冻的 服务员：不好意思，Cappociano没有冰的。热的好么？ 小man：那请问冻的有什么? 服务员：有拿铁，摩卡，Cappociano... 小man：你不是说Cappociano没有冻的吗？ 服务员：对啊 小man：那冻的有什么？ 服务员：有拿铁，摩卡，Cappociano... 小man：你不是说Cappociano没有冻的吗？ ～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～～ Jo Jo在大班（转贴自Jo Jo） 寻日同朋友猪鹏去大班 服务员：小姐食咩啊？ jojo：恩，要个斋菇菌米线. 服务员：唔好意思，无菇菌了. jojo：甘，要个斋菇菌捞面. 服务员：都话无菇菌咯. jojo：哦，甘要个菇菌云吞面啦. 服务员：…… March 06 BOOKS that tapped as XX creatures should read第一章 假如爱情
让我来成全你的幸福——小仲马《茶花女》 灵魂的哲学与博爱——司汤达《红与黑》 越过爱情，看见春暖花开——简·奥斯丁《傲慢与偏见》 我爱你，与你无关——茨威格《一个陌生女人的来信》 这简直像戏一样——威廉·莎士比亚《罗密欧与朱丽叶》 爱永远不用说对不起——西格尔《爱情故事》 山在那里，你在心碎中前进——岩井俊二《情书》 充满暗礁的爱情海洋——加西亚·马尔克斯《霍乱时期的爱情》 爱情终究成了一种传说——阿兰·德波顿《爱情笔记》 温柔而坚强——夏洛蒂·勃朗特《简·爱》 粉色的小爱情——堀川波《我就喜欢你这样的地方》 有天堂，但是没有道路——北村《玛卓的爱情》 我深深爱着，我深深绝望着——杜拉斯《情人》 美与爱是独立的——川端康成《雪国》 难得糊涂的爱情与婚姻——列夫·托尔斯泰《安娜·卡列尼娜》 战火中成长的美丽与坚强——玛格丽特·米切尔《飘》 用哲学来思考——米兰·昆德拉 《生命中不能承受之轻》 奥德修斯式的传奇——雨果《悲惨世界》 二十四小时，路过爱，走过禁区——霍桑《红字》 被枝丫割破喉咙后的哀鸣——考琳·麦卡洛《荆棘鸟》 最残酷的爱和最不忍的恨——曹禺《雷雨》 值得一生的等待——帕斯捷尔纳克《日瓦戈医生》 再赐生命的人——海伦·凯勒《假如给我三天光明》 只有渺小的人物，没有渺小的爱情——西奥多·德莱塞《珍妮姑娘》 黄叶铺满地，我们已不再年轻——路遥《平凡的世界》 生的寂寞，死的单调——萧红《呼兰河传》 爱上你的心——雨果《巴黎圣母院》 爱和欲的煎熬——福楼拜《包法利夫人》 我的成长与战争共呼吸——安妮·弗兰克《安妮日记> 沉重的枷锁——张爱玲《金锁记》 青春恋爱物语——村上春树《挪威的森林》 在自我面前忏悔吧——列夫·托尔斯泰《复活》 片刻的浮华盛世——莫泊桑《项链》 战争，让女人走开?——瓦西里耶夫《这里的黎明静悄悄》 包容的爱还是彻底的恨——艾米莉·勃朗特《呼啸山庄》 天籁微语——泰戈尔《飞鸟集》 从“黑暗意识”中苏醒——翟永明《女人》 溶解心灵的秘密——舒婷《舒婷诗集》 爱，我们曾共同用有——叶芝《当你老了》 你最美的气质是自由——惠特曼《草叶集》 婚姻的镜子——钱钟书《围城》 此幸福，彼幸福——杨绛《我们仨》 爱的是过程——张小娴《面包树上的女人》 用另一个角度来看婚姻——老舍《离婚》 一个女人的城市传奇——王安忆《长恨歌》 爱情与食物的辩证关系——徐坤《厨房》 勇敢地被启蒙——高尔基《母亲》 跳来跳去，你跳得出生活吗——契诃夫《跳来跳去的女人》 棘心天天，母氏劬劳——苏雪林《棘心》 有时候，钱也是安全感——亦舒《喜宝》 一切只是私人生活——陈染《私人生活》 让它变成事实吧!——王小波《黄金时代》 女性的历史神话——徐小斌《羽蛇》 活着的骄傲和哀伤——余华《活着》 绝唱——史铁生《病隙碎笔》 物语人生——紫式部《源氏物语》 最珍贵的尘世——康·帕乌斯托夫斯基《金蔷薇》 以宽容的名义——房龙《宽容》 痴迷的“罪过”——毕飞宇《青衣》 清净心看世界，欢喜心过生活——林清玄《林清玄散文集》 音乐只为聆听而存在——肖复兴《音乐笔记》及续篇《聆听与吟唱》 性之所至——兰陵笑笑生《金瓶梅》 发现艺术的神韵——傅雷《世界美术名作二十讲》 重温儿时旧梦——鲁迅《朝花夕拾》 做一个会看电影的女人——毛尖《非常罪非常美》 让时间STOP——彼得·梅尔《普罗旺斯系列》 在艺术中散步——宗白华《美学散步》 幽默闲适的人生艺术——林语堂<生活的艺术》 永远年轻，永远热泪盈眶——杰克·凯鲁亚克《在路上》 用身体思想，不是用身体写作——艾云《用身体思想》 心灵的处方——毕淑敏《拯救乳房》 人与神大胆对话的宣言——但丁《神曲》 绝对性行为——劳伦斯《查泰莱夫人的情人》 第六章 童话信仰 记住，你是一只美丽的天鹅——安徒生《安徒生童话》 关于生命和爱的寓言——圣埃克苏佩里《小王子》 月亮没忘记——几米《月亮忘记了》 接受爱的洗礼——亚米契斯《爱的教育》 追寻那只幸福的青鸟——梅特林克《青鸟》 理想的人性是神性——沈从文《边城》 静谧人生——梭罗《瓦尔登湖》 第七章 一生之外 红楼女儿国——曹雪芹《红楼梦》 开始人生苦旅——余秋雨《文化苦旅》 让世界在清晰中呈现——乔德坦·贾德《苏菲的世界》 有哲学灵魂的女人——罗素《西方哲学史》 尊重所有的追忆和过往——马塞尔·普鲁斯特《追忆逝水年华》 狐媚多情，人间志异——蒲松龄《聊斋志异》 批评的力量——苏珊·桑塔格<重点所在> 灵魂的低吟浅唱——周国平《人与永恒》 开始反思吧——冯友兰《中国哲学简史》 照亮人类的归途 ——《圣经) 理想主义者的理想——歌德《浮士德》 你不可不知的政治游戏——乔治·奥威尔《动物庄园》 第八章 聆听身体 今夜，你梦见谁?——弗洛伊德《梦的解析》 另一种女人是致命的——王尔德《莎乐美》 你有那与众不同的光?——保罗·科略埃《十一分钟》 通过身体去思考——李银河《中国女性的感情与性》 女权主义的“圣经”——西蒙娜·德·波伏娃《第二性》 膜拜身体行为——海蒂《海蒂性学报告》 好女人是男人心灵的绿洲——卡耐基夫人《写给女人》 真实的自我——林白《一个人的战争》 February 13 some cute, sweet, naughty or love msg collection.here are some cute, sweet, naughty, or love msgs collecftion. dont ever underestimate the magic power of these msgs. u may simply just burst into a smile, but exactly that smile, may cheer u up, may warm others' heart like sunshine, and most importantly, definitely brightens my day with joy and happiness. hope to see your smile everyday!! 1. Sometimes My Eyes get jealous of My Heart U Know why? bcoz A Sweet Person like U always remains CLOSE 2 my HEART & far from My Eyes. 2. When the time comes I can’t smile any more, don’t worry about me, I know what to do. I'll just stare at 1 corner and think of u. No one else could make me happy like the way U do. 3. Why do I miss you? Because u make me smile. U are so kind. U are so sweet. U are funny. And most of all, because u are not texting me anymore. That's Y. 4, Each of us is a star. Sometimes we shine with the rest. Sometimes we twinkle alone. Sometimes when we least know it, we make some 1's wish come true 5, Give "LAUGH" to all But "SMILE" to one Give "CHEEKS" to all But "LIPS" to one Give "LOVE" to all But "HEART" to one Let Everybody "LOV" you But you "LOVE" one 6. Why do we close our eyes when we pray? When we cry? When we dream? When we kiss? cause, we know that most beautiful things in life r not seen but felt by heart 7. Recently I wanna learn how to appreciate art, coz I wanna know how to appreciate u!! 8. What is the difference between cute and feeling cute? Cute is the one who sent this and feeling cute is the one reading this. He...He...he... 9. I'm thinking u. I want to be with u. I am longing for u. I have a crush on u. I want to hug and kiss u. 10. If you are alone, I'll be your shadow. If you want to cry, I'll be your shoulder. If you want a hug, I'll be your pillow. If you need to be happy, I'll be your smile. If you need money, wait for your salary. 11, No matter how sad, no matter how sick, I feel better just thinking of you... But I'm even happier each time I send you a message 'coz I know I'll be disturbing you! 12, You're like my asthma, you take my breath away. Like dandruff; I can't get you off my head. Like my car, you drive me crazy. Like dentures, I can't smile without you. 13, A kiss can be a comma, a question mark, a colon, or an exclamation point... So don't dare to kiss me coz I might get crazy,?.! 14, What's the difference between pleasure and torture? Pleasure is thinking of you and torture is thinking of you too much. 15. what do you do when you see an extremely cute person? well, I stare at the person and smile, but when I get tired, I just put the mirror down. 16. Five reasons why I keep texting you: 1. You made me feel welcomed 2. You made me smile 3. You appreciate my thoughts 4. You are extremely cute 5. You spend time reading my messages 17. When you feel left out and all alone, just try to close your eyes for a moment and think of me. 18. Others say life is unfair. Well, it's true. Others are jealous of you. And they really should be. Wanna know why? Hmmm… coz you have a cute text mate like me. 19. You ought to know how smart, cute, witty, sweet, charming, alluring and wonderful you are! 20. Newsflash: Police are looking for a suspect who's smart, sexy, witty and very gorgeous. They've already eliminated you from the list of suspects. Where do you think I should hide? 21, If I were to make a dictionary: CUTE=you; SWEET=you; THOUGHTFUL=you; GOOD LOOKING=you; GORGEOUS=you; LIAR=me! 22. When somebody who's deeply in love with you tells you that you're cute, beautiful, and angelic, I agree. That's true, believe me, I swear. Cause love is blind! 23. Those innocent eyes... Those kissable lips... A great smile... The perfect walk... Smoothest talk... Absolutely gorgeous... That's enough about me. How about you? 24. Looks may capture the eyes but it's the personality that captures the heart. how lucky r u that u have.................a friend like me who happens to have both!! 25. At this moment 3.7 million are sleeping, 2.3 million are falling in love, 4.1 million are eating and only 1 cutie in the whole world is reading this message. 26. Flower says • Flower says: touch me not • Time says: Waste me not • Message says: Erase me not • And I says............Forget me Not 27. I really deeply wish that u r here... I really deeply wish that u r here with me in my room. On my bed lights is off & we get under the cover together... 2 show u my glow in the dark watch. 28. We don't meet the person everyday who has that kind of magic that makes you fall in love. So if you ever find the person like this never ever miss the opportunity to say "I LOVE U". 29. I love all the stars in the sky, but they are nothing compared to the ones in your eyes! 30. A special smile a special face, a special someone no one can replace. I adore you and always will, you’ve completed a space no one could fill. January 04 Some More Words about 2008 (for the sleepless night)First, wanna share this story about the little prince and his the-one-and-only scarlet rose:
Once upon a time, there was a little prince who owned a planet. One day, a beautiful scarlet rose bursted into bloom on this planet where only had nameless flowers. The little prince never saw such a fascinating flower before. He fell in love with this scarlet rose immediately, nurturing her meticulously with all his heart.
In a long time, he thought the scarlet rose was the-one-and-only flower in the whole world, existing exclusively on his planet, nowhere else.
However, when he travelled to the earth, he found out that just in a garden, there were already 5000 same scarlet roses. Just then, he realized that all he had, his precious love, was just an ordinary flower.
The little prince felt so depressed and sad at first. But eventually, he thought it through: even though there were millions of roses in the world, but the one on his planet was still the-one-and-only, unique. He watered her, nurtured her, protected her from wind and sand with screens, deinsectized her; he even shared her sorrow and joy, listened to her silent words…he raised the rose; at the same time, the rose also completed his life.
Facing those 5000 glamorous stunning scarlet roses, the little prince said:” you are all very beautiful, but inane to me.”
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Intimate relationship is meaningless without love. However, around us, the inane “intimate relationship” is all-over, one night stand, friends with benefits…all perfect samples. We ourselves may even be a follower.
People rush to own. Its like whenever we own one beautiful rose more, we add one more credit to our life value. In this age, it has not been rare that a 20 something guy or girl who already had dozens of ex-es.
One true story from a friend’s friend: S is the typical Mr Dude kind, who changes girls as his clothes. One night, he was quite almost out of the mind drunk in Hhclub. When he went to the Men’s room, he came across a beautiful girl, R, who was also…well drunk ( don’t know in what degree though). He thought, wow such a pretty girl, I must have her number, hook up with her, so he approached. Then they flirted a bit, and decided to exchange numbers( they still didn’t ask each other’s name at this point, for names are not important for this sort of hi-f-bye relationship). While they typed the other’s number in their cellphone, some name popped out on the screens…”R??”, “ Oh, U R S!!” Gosh, they had each other’s number in their very own cell. They already slept together once before, but neither of them can recognize the other's face…lol… classic!!
Loads of Mr Dude, Mr Popular, Mz Butterfly out there, almost like predators, claiming they are experiencing life in the max way they possibly can, enjoying. They r very much social stars, well, so-as-called.
Is it true though as they claimed that they were enjoying??
This kind of “intimate relationship” actually equals to hunting. Hunting cant fulfill the emptiness, nor make people feel less lonely, because hunting is purely about conquest, not love. Mr and Mz Popular are enjoying conquering, not the intimacy of a relationship, not mention love.
The deeper the desire of conquest is, the less interest people would have of intimacy in a relationship. Before owning, they would try all the way to shorten each other’s distance; however, once they owned, quickly, they lost their passion and interest to this intimate relationship. The stronger the desire to conquer is, the quicker the losing speed would be. For them, for sure a rose garden would be way more fascinating than just one scarlet rose.
However, even though they may own a garden of roses, they are still inane, and lonely. All roses mean the same to them, no faces, no names, no differences. There’s no uniqueness in their life. They might want to find that one-and-only feeling at first, but they just wanted to take, never gave. After tried and failed, from one to another, to another…still empty, lonely…then they started losing the patience, and even the ability to love step by step, eventually became numb. In fact, the failure has been set at the very beginning. Selfish people will never find love. Give and take, they rank in a certain order.
Love in an intimate relationship is all about devoting. Not necessary the much u give, the much u may gain, but the investment of time, energy, spirit and heart, which can also be known as commitment, makes the relationship different, makes u and the other different. You would feel warm, secure, comfortable, relaxed and belonging in such a relationship. You just know there is always someone out there, who u can depend on, turn to when life sucks. Even if u just had a bad long day, a warm hug, a sweet kiss from him/her can easily brighten your mood. You trust each other, can share life, which is more the attraction and connection by heart and soul, rather than simply by sexual appeals, by lust.
It is exactly because you spent innumerable time, showered your deep affections upon the rose, she becomes your one and only! Your love makes her the-one-and-only.
Of course, no matter how close two people are, they are still individuals. They share their life, but meanwhile, they are still going their own paths, independently. You don’t own anyone else but yourself. Don’t cross the line, mistake love as possession, otherwise intimacy would become torture rather than joy.
One joyful, mature relationship, being intimate and independent at the same time, is far better than a thousand sexual and inane relationships. It is the most important savior for us to overcome the dreadful loneliness.
Never try, never know how wonderful the belonging feeling is. I used to see life of those Mr and Mz Popular as glamorous, enviable; but now all I can see is just emptiness and vanity.
Thinking a lot lately, a lot of reflections. 2008, can be named as a milestone in my life. Remember a word from somewhere, ” girls are meant to meet one heartbreaker , who will hurt them ver badly, in their life. The earlier, the better, coz they could understand love, learn how to love properly from the broken heart, so that when they actually met the one of their life, they would know how to love, to cherish. The sooner u learned, the sooner u grown, the better chance u would find your love, and be loved.
A girl asked on her space that y she’s always the one to meet cheaters, liars, jerks, asked many times that when would her luck come, to meet a decent man. People with the same nature are always drawn together, magnetically. If u meet one cheater, bad luck; two, bad luck; but more? u yourself a heartbreaker, a cheater, a player, then u have no rights to whine how come u have never met an honest decent man, since u broke others’ hearts, cheated, and played around as well. What goes around, comes around. Circles are everywhere in our lives, and you can choose to be in the virtuous or the vicious ones.
From being young, willful, ignorant, immature, to now, a bit more learned, grown, I feel my being different. Thanks to everything happened in my life in 2008, feeling grateful to everyone with me in 2008 , and apologize to everyone I ever hurt( though I know sorry means nothing, specially after hurts…)
Now see things in a more natural way, "go with the flow" is officially my favorite motto. Just be yourself, keep a kind heart, be virtuous, then other things can just hand over to the unknown. Whatever follows, you will have no regrets.
2009, “Niu” Year, my year. The 2nd circle of my life will complete in 2009 (12 years a circle in Chinese Year), and I will do my best to draw a more self-satisfied period.
January 03 Go for your Dream"If you're going to try, go all the way. Otherwise don't even start. This could mean losing girlfriends, wives, relatives, jobs. And maybe your mind. It could mean not eating for three or four days. It could mean freezing on a park bench. It could mean jail. It could mean derision. It could mean mockery, isolation. Isolation is the gift. All the others are a test of your endurance. Of how much you really want to do it. And you'll do it, despite rejection and the worst odds. And it will be better than anything else you can imagine. If you're going to try, go all the way. There is no other feeling like that. You will be alone with the gods. And the nights will flame with fire. You will ride life straight to perfect laughter. It's the only good fight there is." ----Factotum
2009, a new start, to fullfil your dream, to be brave!!
if u have a dream, just go for it, time waits for nobody.
if u have a dream, go for it, despite what others might say. They r just 'them', they would never be 'u'!! they dont live your life.
if u have a dream, just go all the way for it, and keep the faith that it worths, no matter how hard its gonna be!!
Although people walk away from their dreams for a reason, Dont do it easily, coz it might mean forever, just emptiness would remain in your life!
it might require lots of sacrifies to achieve your dream, but isnt that exactly the greatness of it!! Just go for your dream, whatever it takes, thats how u can truely live!!
Wish your dream come true in 2009!! December 28 Some words for 2008~ random
Always know things change, people change, for better, or for worse, just never felt so authentic like this time I was back to GZ.
Velvet changed, new make-over, almost Honey and Coco Track, cheesy, random; new customers, not the crowds I used to feel comfortable to be surrounded by; new drinks, *itty quantity, if I didn’t ordered word by word, I would say its rather loads of ice with some Chivas on, than “Chivas on the rock”. V has been a very special place for me, coz of the people I met inside, coz of things happened inside, the memories I owned. If my 2008 was filmed, u would find a huge amount of frames with scenes in Velvet. When a place became alienate, u leave. Quote a question asked by Y, “ where could we go in the future then?” I opened my mouth, mute…
People change. Still remember the NYE in V in 2008, now its like from another century. All this year, people walked in my life. We connected, even got involved…Some vanished, for good; some vanished, regrets remained; some r still around, not so different from being vanished though, sad; some vanished, and waltzed back again…Fun and happiness, hurt and pain, its almost like a re-run. It all started from the Eve of 2008, would it be able to draw a period on the 2009’s NYE?
Always think that I am strong, specially in relationships, coz my almost indifferent, careless nature, I don’t get involved, or get into someone easily, well, more accurately, I rarely put deep affection in romance relationships. I thought I did move on, did act as a big girl, mature, and grown, but after some re-bond recently, I knew, by heart, that I didn’t, never ever succeed in getting over it. The deepest hurt is always from the most beloved ones. Got hurt, and it hasn’t even healed yet, really wonder whether I have this sort of being-abused-fetish…I never learned, did Ｉ？ I could say rationally, in the sanity that the end had been set even before the plots began. Just I chose to be blinded back then, by myself. Since I knew, should I just let the re-run go all around again?
People are leaving, but before their departure, they linger on, almost like haunting. Yea, no regrets. Misunderstandings were finally cleared out…but how about the affections for the re-involvement, the pain for the parting… If it is meant to be a tragedy, is it wise to get involved agian, after tears almost dried? “ Parting is a sweet sorrow, we shall never say good-bye till morrow.” What if its not sweet, but more bitter and salty? What if its not just a good-bye, but a farewell? Just pray sun never rises, and morrow never arrives?
While people are leaving, people are coming. For S , I m always grateful that I took the initial step. u may not be able to be present all the time, but u r always with me, in some special place in my heart. Its been half a year, and we have been always apart, but even just simply seeing u, talking to u, hearing u, even just thinking of u, brightened my days. There’s something about your smile, your sparkling blue eyes, S. something that makes my heart pump, something that catches my breath. I know, I just know, that there’s someone out there I can always count on, turn to, feel secure to be with, when life is acting bitchy. I do feel connected with u. I always say for the most ideal relationship, its only about 3 identities: Valentine, best friend, and playmate. We are achieving the former two, and will see later about the remaining one, which is totally a reverse from my former relationships, mostly as playmates at first. I adore u, and looking forward to seeing where we will head, after your come-back. No pressure, just go with the flow. No matter what follows, I m content, since u r like the precious gift I stole from God, every chapter in my life with u in can be considered as I earned. With u, if I m still being greedy to ask God for more, I would literally be an unthankful BI-A-TCH. Just go with the flow, like we had, we were good, and will be as wellJ I have faith on that.
2008 is going to take a bow. Let’s see what will keep being put on before the curtains fell.
2009 is stil a mystery, is going to be unveiled.
With a more peaceful mind, a more grateful heart, wish all my dearest friends the best in the coming year.
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